Practical Ways To Be Pro-Life: Part One--Adopt!

Practical Ways To Be Pro-Life: Part One--Adopt!
by Dennae Pierre


This past Sunday was “Sanctity of Human Life” Sunday. Every year, churches across the country, dedicate a Sunday service to look at the issues related to abortion.  I had the opportunity yesterday to speak about practical ways to be pro-life. The following three blog posts will sum up my main ideas of how we, the church, can be involved in the pro-life movement.

    The most practical way to be pro-life is to care for those in our society who are the most oppressed and vulnerable. In my opinion, orphan care is the single most practical way to support the pro-life movement. It is unfortunate that pro-life Christians are able to passionately speak about life of the unborn, but once that unwanted child enters the world, the voice gets much quieter.

    Not too long ago, I sat across the table at a McDonalds speaking to an overwhelmed mother while our children played. She was noticeably pregnant and I knew that she had been very overwhelmed the past year after the birth of her second child. When I asked about how she was feeling about having her third baby, she confessed in tears that she was trying to raise the money necessary to go to California to have an abortion (she had already passed her time frame to be able to have a legal abortion in Arizona). I was also quite concerned about her ability to parent a third child and began to speak to her about adoption. She informed me that when she was six months pregnant with her second child, she began working with an adoption agency to try to find a loving family to place her child. Months went by, the baby came, and there was no family that was interested in adopting her baby. Once she gave birth, there was no way she would place her child in foster care, knowing that there was no guarantee her child would ever find a home or adoptive family.

   We could discuss the myriad of social, racial, and economic dynamics or the lack of prevention and education that may have led to that woman to get pregnant again, but the fact remained that she was pregnant and could not find a family to adopt her child.  Unfortunately, pro-life literature often gives the poor representation that there are thousands of couples waiting to adopt children and uses this as an answer to abortion. The truth is, there are thousands of couples waiting to adopt Caucasian children, mostly girls, and are unwilling to even look at a child if the family medical or mental health background has some red flags. Single black moms have a much harder time finding a family to adopt.

   Each of us should spend time in fervent prayer with our spouse asking God to show us how we are to participate in caring for orphans. If you read the famous “care for the orphan and widow..” (James 1:27) passage in context, you will see that caring for the orphan is very tightly connected to being a doer of God’s word.  It is not a command to those few within the church who feel “called” to adoption, but is a directive to the people of God. James says, don’t just listen to God’s word and stay unchanged. Listen! And then let God’s word transform and change you. Bridal your tongue. Care for the orphan. Care for the widow. Keep yourself from the world’s lusts. “Caring for the orphan…” applies to you just as much as “bridling your tongue.”

    What if, at Roosevelt Community Church, instead of asking God to open the door and drop a baby in our lap if we’re “meant” to adopt, we begin to beg God for the privilege to participate in the beautiful gospel re-enactment that happens in adoption? What if we ask the Lord to shut doors if we aren’t to adopt? Instead of spending the next several years of our life cowering in fear about all the potential issues that could happen if we adopt a child, let us repent of our fear! Ask God to give us a bigger understanding of his perfect love that drives out all fear.

   I say all of this out of a passionate plea for you to prayerfully consider adoption, but I also want to make sure I express that Roosevelt is not legalistic when it comes to adoption and the last thing I am trying to do is guilt trip anyone. Christians who adopt are not more righteous then Christians who don’t (and if we think we are-may we repent of our self-righteousness!!). So, regardless of your desire or ability to adopt, support orphan care. You can care for orphans in countless ways, just please be intentional about it!

Serve and care for families who adopt. Give sacrificially so someone can adopt. Find ways to at least be involved at some basic level in the life of a child who is an orphan spiritually. This could happen through involvement in grant/ harmon park, your child’s school, your neighborhood. You can volunteer to mentor a child in foster care. There are countless ways. Don’t stay static on this issue, but seek the Lord in how you are to be involved in some way, in caring for the orphan.

Practical Ways To Be Pro-Life: Part Two-- Speak! (Intelligently and Pastorally)